Saturday, May 4, 2013

THE POWER OF PROXIMITY IN BUILDING INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS!

Intimate relationship develops when people are in close proximity with each other. No wonder it is common to see individuals who finished from the same University get married after few years of graduation or some folks who attend the same church, social functions or work in the same Organization end up getting married. This highlights the power of frequency of interaction as a result of physical or geographical closeness. However, with the proliferation of the internet and mobile phones, the frequency of interaction among guys/ladies seeking intimate relationship has increased geometrically and it is a lot easier than few years ago.

However, the question is, do we love people more because we spend time with them or do we spend time with them because we love them?
When you have developed a high level of maturity and relational skills, you will be able to sustain a relationship and your mate will not just love you because he or she spends time with you but will surely spend time with you willing and with excitement because he or she loves you. People run away from relationships/individuals that cause them more pain than pleasure.
By Gospella Amaugo

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